When they become aware of what actually was said and the intent behind them, they look like fools for making a mountain of molehill. More so when they think they heard something that was never said. Many a times it is how a person interprets his / her spouse’s actions or words that raises a problem. Most cases ha hndled today by marriage counselors usually turns out to be problems with understanding and adjustments. This trait is all the more essential when it comes to the special relationship shared between two people called marriage. Good understanding breeds good adjustments and adaptations. The person who comes next will know that salt has been added and need not add salt again.

If anyone of them adds salt to the flour, then they would leave the salt jar touching the vessel with the flour. To solve this puzzle the three daughters-in-law came up with a novel idea. If salt has been added to the flour, how will the next person know so as to keep the flour from being salted again? In the event the breakfast on that particular day is dosa or idily then there is a problem. However occasionally when one of my brothers wants an early breakfast, they are the first to enter the kitchen and leave before the others could get up. Both my brothers work for call-centers their wives (accustomed to their timings) are the last to enter the Kitchen in the mornings.

Let me begin with my own experience of living in a joint family. Living in a joint family has its own advantages and disadvantages.

Malayalam christian song daivaputhranu